Wednesday, 29 July 2009

Change can be difficult, but don’t be afraid, even the butterfly, as it emerges from its cocoon, thinks that it is dying.

We are our own creators and have no one to blame but ourselves if creations don't come. That does not mean it's easy! One must definitely let go in order to be free. Let go of what? Of what you know does not serve you or something that deep in your heart you can admit is not true for you. This is often a place of comfort, non-confrontation, and 'no courage required'. What I have learnt in the last year, is that when you finally do let go, jump off the cliff and build your wings on the way down, that freedom can never be replaced or explained to anyone, it is like living in a rainbow. It is not an exterior identity, nor something you can prove by displaying awards. It is personal.

The trick is not to take things personally:

Did the chicken lay the egg, or did the egg lay the chicken? Which
came first? In all of creation, everything happens at once when
vibrations reach a certain level of frequency. It is then that
manifestation occurs when things culminate through like energies
attracting like energies. Similar to always having everything we
need, the pieces come together more easily when there is less
density. So then, do we attract our experiences, or do our
experiences attract us? And how does this relate to not taking
things personally?

As we vibrate higher and higher, we shed off our density, or the
lower vibrating aspects of ourselves. Higher and lower energies
cannot exist in the same space, and we are now residing in a higher
realm. We only react to things if they trigger something within us
that is a match in vibration. As we begin to vibrate higher, we
then begin to embody higher ways of being, and not reacting to the
outside environment is one of these ways of being. Just like the entire nature kingdom, we eventually come to a place where we simply are. The more purified version of ourselves is composed of our special gifts and talents, our connection to Source, and not much else. In this way, we can be shining our brightest light the
majority of the time. Everything else belongs to someone or
something else.

When we attract situations in our lives that create an emotional
response, or charge, this is because we have a corresponding energy
pattern that is connected to our disconnected or ego selves.

As we begin to evolve, we can still attract situations or see them
unfolding around us, but if we have no particular feelings or
emotions about them, then we are free and clear to be who we are at
the highest levels. Not taking things personally is one way to do

All the best until next time,

In love and light,



Psychic Intuitive

Empathic Life-Coach

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Knowing that you are a spiritual being living an Earthly existence is to live Life here and now from the Soul’s perspective– in all ways and in all things.

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Wednesday, 15 July 2009

Something beautiful

Hi, all,
this week I am not sending out a Lilac Master article, but letting you in on something beautiful:

In my other life, I am also the manager and chef of a stunning Boutique Bed and Breakfast called ‘28A on Oxford’ in the gorgeous suburb of Sandhurst in Johannesburg (South Africa).

Our primary style, concerning furnishings, is functional antique.
Both lounges, the dining room, the main house and all the rooms are fitted out in serene elegance. And all antique furniture and ornaments are for sale – as they come from our range of antique stores.
I also do my best to ensure my guests dietary requirements and food preferences are satisfied as far as possible.
Breakfast is included in the rates and dinner is prepared on request.

28 A on Oxford offers a selection of suites. We have 5 suites & 3 Garden Cottages available; each unique in their design and each equipped with maximum comfort and privacy in mind. Rates start from R1 250.00 per person sharing.
Wireless internet available throughout the property.

Our garden is lovely too. And as the place is brand spanking new – we are still in progress to develop the property’s natural beauty even further.

But – I am not going to chat on forever, so please go look at the website (that was only registered yesterday) – and you will find all the details there…………...., including pictures!!

It has now been 1 year since I started my own alternative practice - (HolisticLifeSolutions) – and I now have the perfect setting in which to continue it –.
My treatments, readings and holistic life coaching sessions are all still the same price too, now just more tranquil here in the surroundings of 28A on Oxford.

Oh, and I also received a nice surprise from the USA when a package was delivered to me from EZINE – congratulating me on being one of their platinum authors for my Lilac Master articles posted on their site.

All the best until next time,

In love and light,


Psychic Intuitive
Empathic Life-Coach

Thursday, 2 July 2009

What's vibrating?

In this week's Lilac Master I am trying to address this feeling of "nothing is moving in my life" -
Some people have noticed that things are quick to materialze these days - and some have not.
It is all about the following:
it is fact that humanity and science is slowly coming to the realization that thought does actually create reality - this is actually no longer in that much dispute - what is under scrutiny is the difference is pace of its occurance..
There is a simple explanation for this - and that depends on any one person's belief and understanding of the concept of how creation occurrs.
We, as a species, are slowly realizing that we have more say in creation than at first thought.
It is a matter of vibration:
Your thought and actions produce vibration - and when this thought is accompanied by emotion and "meets up" with a similar vibration in the universe - VOILA!! - a match is made and creation happens.

I have decided to send out an disribution email that consists of a bunch of quotes - and nothing that looks like the norm:

Happiness comes first. Partners, abundance, and cool shoes come later.

it's supposed to be easy. Everything is supposed to be easy. Everything is easy. You live in a dream world. You're surrounded by illusions. And the illusions change when you change your thinking!

Very simply, the more that you accept responsibility for something, the more power you have.

You only ever have to do what you're capable of doing, because by design, no matter how things appear, you'll always have enough time to do it, you'll do even better than you would have thought, and life will get even richer than you could have imagined.

One must let go, in order to be free.

Brilliant, civilization-changing ideas are a dime a dozen. Physically taking action to implement them, however, beginning with baby steps that seem to accomplish very little, is what gets the crowds screaming..


Jacques Ractliffe
(Douglasdale/Sandown, Johannesburg, RSA)
Skype ID = jacquesr123

The greatest gift that you could ever give another is the gift of your expectation of their success.