Wednesday, 27 May 2009

Finding the pathways within..

“You can get everything you want in life if you will just help enough other people get what they want.”

- Zig Ziglar

One thing I have said over and over for several years is that
the higher realms are not what you might think. Much of what
we have been taught or read about is highly inaccurate.
Although this is not a simple process, basically it all boils down
to simplicity and how energy responds and interacts with itself.
There are higher and lower forms of vibrating energy creating
things that feel good and things that do not. So then, there is
no meaning to anything. Meaning is simply what we choose to
place on any particular manifestation. Some things may feel
good to one person according to how they interpret them, and
may feel very unpleasant to another. A rule of thumb, then,
might be that things either feel good or they feel bad. It's that

Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.”

- Thich Nhat Hanh

In the last seven weeks I have learnt so much about myself, just through the art of allowing other people to be who they are – without judgement (ok, so that part I only really learnt in the last week). It is quite amazing what happens when you allow another their way of living and believing – it quite literally turns things around. And by allowing, I mean really just allowing. Not judging their actions; not reacting to comments in which you find you have to “put the record straight”.

If you feel that you have to defend your way of doing things toward your friends and loved ones – then you have missed the loo, lost the plot and burnt the cupcakes.

We are only responsible for our own behaviour. No one person can create another’s belief and experience – however, the drama lies in the perception that another person can alter and affect our minds. The only way another can have a say in how we see and experience things, is if we allow their opinion(s) to influence our own – and that is our own doing – the other person influenced nothing; but it was perceived that they did.

Loving someone for the simple fact that they are there makes a world of difference.

“The most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our window today.”

- Dale Carnegie

The greatest gift that you could ever give another is the gift of the expectation of their success.

Remember that you are here to be that which you want to be, while you allow all others to be that which they want to be.



Psychic Intuitive

Empathic Life-Coach

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True enlightenment manifests as the unconditional desire to be of service to all of humanity.

Knowing that you are a spiritual being living an Earthly existence is to live Life here and now from the Soul’s perspective– in all ways and in all things.

Wednesday, 13 May 2009

Don't give up..

I was asked what the number one way is to reverse a global recession:

“Recession? What recession? Who said anything about a recession…? Onwards to the mall, I say!”

These were the words of a very good friend of mine who has the most unbelievably positive outlook on life I have seen in a while.

Sure – our world markets are slumping and all that jazz…, and this friend of mine has no blinkers on, believe me; he sees as much reality in the current global situation as anyone else with a few brain cells to spare.


The thing is that as soon as one starts to plot an approach that is specifically designed in your head to deal with a sagging economy, all the various animal flues and your bad hair, a tipping point is reached in your life that will make these threats a reality in your life.

Not to say that you will not feel the fear of all the fear mongers and doom saying woowoo! people. NO. You will see the reality of the fearing people, but that does not mean you have to revel in it as well.

Have a glass of wine with your lover,
Go have coffee with friends,
Traverse a mall and see a movie,
Bake a double chocolate mint fudge cake and have a gettogether,
Attend that “voodoo” talk you have wanted to go listen to,
Visit your auntie in far-and-beyond-village,
…and think big – no matter how little you have, if you believe abundance, speak it and act abundantly – you will eventually have it in greater measure.

This is the difficult part – not actually doing it, but not giving in to outside fears and opinions. AND not giving up.

Do not stop believing in yourself – the world will be a lesser place for it if you did.

Some things should also just be done for the fun of it - Not because they're inexpensive, practical, organic, logical, fashionable, modest, brilliant, green, expected, proper, spiritual, thinning, fattening, prudent, or allergen-smoke-chemical free.


Psychic Intuitive
Empathic Life-Coach

Elegance and Serenity (It is all in your attitude)

I have realised that I have come to a final stance in my belief in God. I have been given the thing my psyche has yearned to know all these years – ultimately: In my own belief system I know what God is to me; in my own belief system I know that I am supported by the invisible realms, but there has always been that nagging thing of ‘is it real’? ‘am I really part of God and creation’?

While listening to Beethoven, it struck me that although I have seen, heard and experienced the invisible support of life – in my life, I have never fully accepted it. My mind got in the way. And now Life has provided me with the means to accept: For the past nine months I have been forced to face my own demons and some of my deepest fears and hurts in a society that is undergoing much change in difficult times.

If your safety and security lie only in worldly affairs – you are especially vulnerable, for nowhere in the world is there safety and security. Things are galloping along quickly and much is being shaken up (forget the stirring!).

It is all about attitude; and the prevailing attitude at the moment is one of defining morality and establishing self-worth and individual empowerment.

My own attitude has been grossly eschewed in many respects; I started seeing no meaning in our earthly life…, and worse yet, I started detesting the life style of human society and becoming disgusted with humanity in general.

…What I have learned through all this is that it is I who am responsible for bringing joy into my own life. I have learned that there is no point to it all if life cannot be shared with those that matter. I have learned that instead of pleading with Christ to give purpose to my experience(s)…, simply ask for Life to provide your highest good in every situation – and then to really trust…, and then watch for synchronistic events that support your desire, and then act on them.

Also: be loud and proud of your self and do not let what you do define your attitude, but to let your attitude define what you do.

Take the lead and be decisive – and know that your passion lies in that thing that you know you can do without much thinking and/or effort (and sometimes that is not even something you have considered yet – and sometimes there is more than one).

The choice that I now have is to believe that I am worth something as a human being, and that either I believe it – or I don’t.

You cannot be held responsible by Life for someone else’s happiness, but you will be held responsible for your own.

Start by giving happiness to others; and do not believe in loss or gain.

Your goal is to eliminate unnecessary drama from your life.

With all my love and gratitude,



Psychic Intuitive

Empathic Life-Coach

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