Thursday, 22 January 2009

True Love


(...love comes in many forms)


People forget that love is not a commodity; neither a tool – in fact, it is not comparable to any usual human emotion. It is also the most constructive emotion that we have, and one that permeates everything we do.

There are two ways to look at love – almost like using it: One can firstly be “bowled over” by someone. And secondly, one can love out of guilt and need. 1) Infatuation… is not wrong, however, it is based on you giving your power to another by plopping them atop a pedestal; and a relationship based on infatuation is an unstable one and can possibly only last in the short term – until the infatuation is gone and you realise you have put yourself down. The mistake people can make here is to not acknowledge that they were simply infatuated – and that the feeling was just temporary. They have not enjoyed it for what it was – and as a result, much pain and heartache is caused because of pride and shame. Easier said than done…


Starting a relationship with someone because you think they are better than you (and romance has clouded all your reason), will only end up in resentment. It is basically the same as infatuation. 2) Resentment… is a degrading emotion that is the offspring of low self-esteem and a loss of pride. It will get no-one nowhere quickly – except the anger and hurt departments.


Love also comes ‘round when life announces it all of a sudden, without warning or preparation. However, true love has an added mix → also unexpected and all that jazz, it comes with experience (a bit of a let down there?). Although love is love and so-called true love is also subject to our desires, to truly love someone, so as for them to wanna stay (that nobody can ultimately do or arrange) - true love is, or it isn’t.


So what is true love all about? It is when you allow another to be who they are within your relationship; to experience their life as they see fit within your relationship. Only two people who are secure in their identity and who are not threatened by what others think of them or what they do - only they stand a chance of long term happiness together. Not being a victim of circumstance; not being a “woe is me” type and “you have more than I”, is what is going to be the lasting romantic glue. We all know that in this world we have to compromise. It is when we can live with another, each of us compromising for the relationship – and so we contribute to the one entity of the relationship; and also not loosing our individuality as a person – that must NEVER happen! And each one in the relationship always has to be aware of what is being compromised for and contributed to the one entity that is the relationship; and only maturity in your outlook on how life works can possibly make this work.

Living with true love at your side is not for the faint hearted. It requires nothing, and yet everything on a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual level – when it comes to understanding it.


The higher we evolve, the more we find that we are not matched with partners for reasons of matching vibration and energy that needs healing, but more for the simple pleasure of each other’s company as companions of a higher order. In this way, our partners will be a joyous addition to our lives.


“Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction”

- Antione de Saint-Expery


With all my love and gratitude,

Regards,

Jacques

LiFe-Counselor

Psychic Intuitive

Masseur

Motivational Speaker (Self-Empowerment)

& Writer


True enlightenment manifests as the unconditional desire to be of service to all of humanity.

Knowing that you are a spiritual being living an Earthly existence is to live Life here and now from the Soul’s perspective– in all ways and in all things.


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Thursday, 8 January 2009

Happy 2009!


A METHOD OF LIFE

Happiness is not a destination. It is a method of life.”

- Unknown

Before I started this article for the New Year, I browsed around the internet, red various newsletters and even got some stuff on Facebook. I was about to write a whole explanation on the Numerological vibration of 2009 for the world and also for South Africa. But then I thought to myself: “everything has been written up and there are so many places to go and have a look at predictions and niceties. The numerological thing has been said already (I did a small comment regarding that on SABC international in November 2008 as well) – so what’s left? The evolvement of human nature? or the planetary shift continued?” Mmmmmmmmmm..

…I know that all of the predictions and whoohoo stuff have a place and time…., and the best energy of all that is currently coming, is the realisation that people are realising their……., OH!, just visualise it like this: A saintly saint standing on a mountain top – flowing robes and raised arms and hands – SCREAMING!: “Loveley!, now just get on with it already!”

It is within this knowledge that I experienced the following: Over Christmas I was invited too a lunch out at Hartbeespoort – and boy was it amazing. And why was it amazing? Two reasons – the company and my choice to enjoy myself in that moment. I did not know anybody there except the person who had invited me – and I was so warmly taken into a friendship circle; accepted as part of the company of their family. This acceptance can only be done by people who know that the world is what you make of it – and not leaving that thought to mould in the pantry of some fairy godmother, but dealing with reality and changing what one can if it is not suitable/sustainable, knowing that the world takes time ‘worlding”. So why not enjoy what you have in the moment? – and ensuring that you are surrounded by those who appreciate life in the same way you do.

“We must overcome the notion that we must be regular…it robs us of the chance to be extraordinary and leads you to the mediocre.”

- Uta Hagen

2008 was a year that was key for verbal self-expression and the expression of the ego and communication. 2009 represents the duality of humans and symbolises the gateway to our sensitivities, as well as our need to be part of a pair. It is a year potentially filled with intuitive expansion.

The addition to SA is one of a time to display orderliness, practical construction and organisation.

What we do with these potentialities is only up to us as humans and as a society. That is enlightenment.

If you don’t make the effort, you won’t reach your goal. So take the first step. There will be many challenges. You might get knocked back – but in the end you will make it.”

- Richard Branson

With all my love and gratitude,

Regards,

Jacques

LiFe-Counselor

Psychic Intuitive

Masseur

Motivational Speaker (Self-Empowerment)

& Writer

Link to current Treatments/Readings available by Jacques

http://treatmentslm.blogspot.com/


True enlightenment manifests as the unconditional desire to be of service to all of humanity.

Knowing that you are a spiritual being living an Earthly existence is to live Life here and now from the Soul’s perspective– in all ways and in all things.


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