Wednesday, 20 February 2008

Victim to Victor Mentality...


VICTIM TO VICTOR MENTALITY

Who said one cannot rise above our worldly reality? All one needs is courage to face one’s difficulties - that comes from the reserves of the mind, which is more powerful than any outside circumstance.
One CAN rise above one’s issues by recognising that you are bigger than your problems; however, one’s obstacles will appear small or large in direct proportion to whether YOU feel big or small.
The capacity to confront that, which blocks your path, lies in COURAGE.
The problem that faces humans in solving their own issues is found in the reliance in and on outside paraphernalia. BLIND FAITH only gets one onto a path of being strewn along by what happens TO YOU in life.
Are you one of those people that believe they are too weak to make things happen? and consequently justify their own inadequacy through this belief? Displaying your apparent spiritual incapability for all to have pity on?
Disempowering yourself like this plays directly into the hands of the orthodox education-, religious- and media-reinforced world.
Through such a belief system, one bows down to accepting that all that is apparently of “higher origin” is self evidently superior – whether this is your boss at work or a belief in Ascended Masters.
Quite frankly, the above stated could only imply that one is scared of taking responsibility; and through such a belief one severs any challenges of growth and the inspiration attained through personal experience.

RIGHT! Enough ranting and raving. Let’s look at it in a bit more detail:
Many entrap themselves in roles that cause pain and disillusionment (much of the time, completely without conscious effort or knowing).
If you do not take responsibility for your emotions and behaviours, but leave the decision making to someone else and forego any form of courage, you end up blaming others for your own mistakes – YOU BECOME A VICTIM.
Victimhood surely results in ANGER, as you do not take responsibility for your own actions – and anger results in “taking it out” on others, by making them responsible for your misfortune. WITH THIS ATTITUDE YOU DISEMPOWER YOURSELF COMPLETELY.

An attitude of such disempowerment in a person can also unmask the RESCUER attitude in you – the rescuer of other peoples’ perceived misguided thoughts and actions; thus giving unsolicited advice and indulging in unwanted interference.
Rescuing is not giving love! Becoming the victim is not how one receives love! This is simply co-dependent behaviour.
Taking charge of another’s behaviour and choices is to not trust them (and remember that everybody is a mirror of your own behaviour and choices). People can take care of themselves – you take care of yourself. Life your own life – and show yourself some unconditional love.


Regards, and have a fabuluous rest of the week,
Jacques

Clairsentient,
Life-Force Channeler
& Psychic



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Thursday, 7 February 2008

Conscious Command...


“Many people have the wrong idea of what constitutes happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification but rather through fidelity to a worthy purpose.”
- Helen Keller

If you think about it, desiring things that will bring you happiness is not going to work. You have to be happiness. You know, like those HAPPINESS IS comic strips.
Simply put, here are three things to consider:
1) Have something to do – with other words, create something in your life that you show a passion for; but I am not referring to doing something to get that passion – be the passion that creates more passion. I am also not necessarily talking about your job (if your job is also your passion – what a bonus!), have something additional that gives you pleasure and provides mental stimulation outside of the general rat race.
2) Have something to love – something that you hold dear, like pets or close friends – something with meaning (and, believe me, a ‘really’ true friend will walk many more miles with you).
3) And also something to hope for – without having things to look forward to, life becomes pointless. So, create things to look forward to.

And so it comes full circle.

The vast majority of our un-creating abilities come from doubting ourselves all the time, not believing that we are good enough, or intelligent enough, or strong enough, or young enough, or just not worth it. Many people do not believe they are their own highest authorities, and end up giving away so much power in the belief that they are dependant on outer forces for their own happiness – and thus VERY LITERALLY un-create the good in their own lives. And then there are some who do believe it, and use it against those who do not - to further their own cause(s).

Just remember, that in this doing year of 2008, IT IS NEVER OVER UNTIL IT IS OVER!
“You are your own most important resource for making your life work. Life rewards action. Until your knowledge, awareness, insights and understandings are translated into action, they are of no value.”
- Dr. Phil McGraw

The Intelligent world reminds us that to be a winner, you have to display the quality of a winner – thus, the power to hold on and endure in spite of everything.
This holds some truth…, AND REMEMBER – your greatest glory DOES NOT lie in never failing, as ‘failure’ is a concept accredited in the minds of the members of the Pity Party. Success lies in knowing that there will always be more success behind every rise and that barriers do not disappear, they are always a potential, however, constant and determined effort in controlling your emotional mind to only “go” for the stuff that bring about growth will break down the, mostly unconscious, resistance coveted by humans against successful growth.
Also remember that, in the function and dimension of our Earth, all great achievements require time – sometimes a lot, sometimes a little and sometimes almost none.
Sssssssssoooooooooooooooooo…, What is the significant business of your life? WHAT IS YOUR PORPOSE? …………………………………………………
Question: Why would you want to get stuck in the rut of what is my purpose in life?
It is a bad idea to fall for that trap! We all have talents that are more prolific in certain areas, but it’s not a good thing to stop moving and restrict your talents to only ONE THING! It’s about your place in the Universe. ‘Purpose’ is way more than just having direction.
And to describe your place in the Universe (on this Earth)? – I leave you with these three questions to know if you have become powerful within yourself:
1. Do I count and do I act as if I do count?
2. Do I spread warmth and love wherever I go?
3. Am I a healing force in my world and the world at large?

“Victories often occur after you see no way to succeed but refuse to give up anyway.”
- Dave Weinbaum




Regards,
Jacques

Clairsentient,
Life-Force Channeler
& Psychic



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